So I am curious about people's opinions on something.
Since I left my job and became a stay at home wife, I have voluntarily taken charge of almost all of the cooking, cleaning, and household errands and chores. There are several reasons for this: I don't mind doing it; I need things to occupy my time anyway; and I am now somewhat dependent on Brian for money (I have a pretty big balance in my savings account, but that is for the House and not to be touched).
That said, is it "fair" for me to be doing all the housework etc? I am not complaining, just curious what people think. Brian is working hard for his company, albeit remotely. I think I would feel guilty to ask him to clean the house, too, for some reason.
When I was still working, I still cooked dinner most of the time, but we shared housework fairly equally (though I always washed and changed the bedding, but whatever).
Another important factor: while we live here, at my father's house, we are not paying any rent. We will pay for utilities and food and so on, but not having to pay that extra $1850 a month is a big help. There was a brief period when we thought Brian might quit his job and just look for something in Seattle, in which case we might both be unemployed, which I think would mean me expecting him to pitch in more. Hmm.
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AllIs it "fair" for me to take on the cooking and other chores while I'm not bringing in any income?
Anyway. Time for sleep. Goodnight.